Dubious (Orig on FetLife -- 2015ish)
Sufferance in Tolerance This is probably triggering, but I don't care. This is my experience that I have to live with, you just have the opportunity to read it. Have you ever had sex that was genuinely enjoyable? Do you think that by looking at me, I have had many sexual encounters? Do you think as an African American, cis-gender demisexual woman, I’m respected? I can’t speak for all grey-sexuals, but I can share my limited sexual experience. Being a demisexual in a world of nothing but sexual entities is difficult. Sure you can encounter ones that actually heed you when you demonstrate uncomfortable behavior and vocalize your disapproval, but that doesn’t mean everyone has the same politeness. I wanted to write this because the last encounter with a man I had, said the following to me and it has me thinking: “Who doesn’t enjoy sex? I feel sorry for all those guys that had sex with you.” Well, luckily I have thicker skin otherwise I would have cried on the spot. Regardle